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Breaking Your Paradigm
Breaking Your Paradigm
Bud Patterson talks about breaking your paradigm and changing how we view the world and the world of international dating.
Breaking your paradigm is about changing the views that have been ingrained in us by the news and media about the world of international dating.
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